here’s to No nonsense® Our Story

I've had to overcome many obstacles and barriers in life since a very young age particularly around my race. I'm proud to share that my mom gave up her career to give me a better life in the US. We migrated when I was a year old and ever since my role as a daughter is to exhibit strength and tenacity to whatever comes my way, for myself and for my mom. During Covid I had one of the toughest challenges I think I've ever dealt with: I lost my father three days after giving birth to my daughter. I was unable to fly down to be there and dealt with quite a bit of post-partum depression. My biggest challenge was talking about being depressed- I'm "super woman"....how can I struggle? But I did and I'm blessed that somehow, I came out on top. My dad always told me my strength would carry me when I needed it most. I'm thankful I found strength in my kids and being a mother. If one day, they ask me about overcoming a challenge I can share my daughter’s birth story, how I gained a beautiful daughter and dealt with grief. That they were my gasoline to keep me going. I'll add that I decided to change careers two months after giving birth to her (that's a story for another time...but pumping while interviewing should get you a job anywhere). My mom taught me that I must drive the change I want to see and that's what I hope I do every day and will continue to do until the day I part.

My life journey (especially the past decade) has been that of hardship, struggle, enlightenment, and absolute adventure. In 2014, after leaving a 20+ year toxic marriage and walking away from the 16-year business we created together, I was in a place of ground zero. As unstable and financially insecure as that was, I finally felt free and able to begin deeply healing my inner spirit and start living life (not just existing in it). Since then, I have explored new experiences and ventured into new challenges - personally, professionally, and spiritually. I wouldn't change anything and although my living style is super simplistic these days, I've found a wealth in freedom and self-liberation that was only available at the release of everything that was holding my life down. I now relish the opportunities to share my strength and to inspire other women to ignite their inner feminine goddess energy and set fire to their life in the most beautiful magical way. Shine on!

I want to share something I am extremely passionate about...pageants and modeling. I went to school to be a teacher which is a big passion of mine. My other passion was and is pageants and modeling. In 2009 I was placed 4th runner up in the Miss North Carolina USA pageant. I was awarded scholarships from the pageant while attending High Point University and given the opportunity to attend Barbizon Modeling School where I went on to model and act in LA. I worked with AMTC and attended an event in Florida for acting and modeling. My experiences in the pageant, modeling, and acting world taught me a lot! When first entering the pageant world I was told I needed to lose weight; I began a workout and diet journey which led me down a very low path in my life. I was never overweight, but I let this diet and physical fitness take over my life. I've been able to dial back to where I can be happy and healthy, but it was a huge obstacle to overcome. I want people, especially women, to realize that it's so easy to be hard on yourself, but in the end, you must come to the realization that you are enough, if you feel others don't love the way you look or feel a certain way about you, God still does. You must come to a point where you're comfortable in your own skin and that's what I've done. After one child and one on the way my life has changed for the good in so many ways. I want my children to understand what took me so long to learn early on in their life. Life is a journey, and you are enough!